Just because kids are small and have smaller bodies doesn't mean that their issues with leakage are not a BIG deal. Bowel and bladder leakage should be addressed early to avoid negative longterm physiological and psychological impact.
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What Does Pelvic Therapy Look Like
Pelvic Floor Awareness and Training
Pelvic floor muscles are tricky for adults to find, not to mention youngsters. I use visual cues, external biofeedback, external palpation and lots of encouragement to help kids find these muscles so they can use them correctly.